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Are We Hardwired To Date A Certain Way?

May 3, 2022/in Uncategorized /by Treva

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GUESTS:

Dr. Duana Welch

Dr. Duana Welch is the original Love Factually author and coach, known for using social science to solve real-life relationship issues. She has been a professor at universities in Florida, California, and Texas across 20 years, and has contributed to NPR, PBS, Psychology Today, and numerous other outlets, podcasts and videos. Her first book, Love Factually: 10 Proven Steps from I Wish to I Do, is now out globally in five languages.

Love Factually for Single Parents is the second book in the series, specifically geared for finding the right partner not only for readers, but their families. All Duana’s books rely on science rather than opinion to help men and women find and keep the right partner.

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https://www.facebook.com/LoveFactuallyAuthor
https://twitter.com/duanawelch

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Meet The New Post-Pandemic You

June 10, 2021/in Uncategorized /by Treva

Guests:
Jill Brown

After a year plus of pandemic stress eating and drinking, we’re finally getting back to normal and back into action. But what about those extra pounds and bad habits we picked up along the way? How do we get rid of the COVID-15 and get fit? What kind of diet should we be on? And where do we find the motivation if we’ve turned into lazy sloths?

Look no further than fitness guru and nutritional expert Jill Brown, our guest this week on Done Being Single. She’s got all the tips and tools you need to get yourself into post-pandemic shape.



JILL BROWN
Jill helps people regain control of their bodies and eating habits. She is a physical transformation coach specializing in reshaping bodies, slowing down aging, & reversing back pain for bodies over 40, 50 and beyond.

She is an In-Person & Online Fitness Trainer, Functional Strength, Nutrition & Health Coach and Group Fitness Instructor with a 25+ year track record of transforming peoples’ lives.

She has a long list of certifications and specialties from leading organizations including ACE, Stott Pilates, Spinning, Precision Nutrition, L-Nutra and more.

Two of her specialties are: Intermittent Fasting protocols for fat loss, longevity & gut health, plus reversing back and neck pain.

In her free time, she is a fur mama to two amazing rescue dogs, Rizzo and Louie.

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Keeping Sex Alive & Well During COVID

March 9, 2021/in Uncategorized /by Treva

Guests:

Susan Bratton

Science geeks and horny bastards, this episode is for you!

Sexpert and sexy brainiac Susan Bratton bares it all with her newest techniques, hottest tips, latest science, and her own personal struggle and recovery from COVID. From cock rings to hyperbaric oxygen therapy, Susan knows all and shares all.

Whether you’re looking to enhance your intimacy with your partner, keep the fires burning as a single, or are curious about COVID treatments and ways to stay healthy and sexually active during the pandemic, we’ve got you covered. 

So light some candles, slip into something more comfortable, and tune in!

Sexy nerd Susan Bratton

Susan Bratton is an advocate and champion of all who desire passionate intimacy. She is a best-selling author of 34 books and online programs that teach passionate lovemaking, bedroom communication skills and restorative sexual wellness techniques.

Susan is a frequent daytime television guest, speaker from the stage and expert on myriad online summits and podcasts.

In addition to being a sexpert, helping millions of people through her Better Lover YouTube channel and Instagram platform, she is the CEO of a digital publishing company called Personal Life Media and creator of a next-generation line of libido products for people across the gender spectrum called The20.

Find Susan here:
http://betterlover.com
http://susanbratton.com
https://personallifemedia.com/experts/susan-bratton/
http://instagram.com/susanbratton
https://www.linkedin.com/in/susanbratton/
http://twitter.com/susanbratton
http://facebook.com/susanbratton

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The “It Factor” And How To Get It

February 19, 2021/in Uncategorized /by Treva

Guests:

Suneel Gupta

What does business and love have in common? That highly desirable, very elusive “It Factor.” Whether you’re dating or pitching a startup, it’s more than having charm, looks, and charisma; it’s about having conviction and passion about what you do, and who you are.

Our guest this week, author and professor Suneel Gupta, cracks the code on how to pick a winner, how to stand out, and how to get someone to take a chance on you. In other words, how to be “Backable,” the name of his forthcoming new book.

Suneel Gupta is on faculty at Harvard University where he teaches students how to be “Backable.” Using the 7 steps inside this book, Suneel went from being the face of failure for the New York Times to being the “New Face of Innovation” for the New York Stock Exchange. His ideas have been backed by firms like Greylock and Google Ventures, and he has invested in startups including Airbnb, Calm, and SpaceX. Suneel also serves as an emissary for Gross National Happiness between the United States and the Kingdom of Bhutan.

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Get Rid Of Dating Anxiety Once And For All!

February 5, 2021/in Uncategorized /by Treva

Guests:
Chris Rackliffe

This episode is like Xanax for dating jitters. Get rid of nerves and performance anxiety by understanding your attachment style, honoring your needs, and practicing science backed coping mechanisms. With Chris Rackliffe’s expert guidance and insights, you’ll be able to recognize your core gifts and
get the love and affection you deserve–all without a doctor’s prescription!

Chris Rackliffe is a personal development writer and coach, whose ability to paint with words has touched the lives of millions of people around the world. Rackliffe shares stories that cut straight to the heart, detailing his own heartfelt and harrowing experiences to help others lead happier, healthier, more fulfilling lives.

In his books and blogs, keynotes and coaching sessions, Rackliffe blends principles of psychology, philosophy, physics, and spirituality with his signature storytelling aimed to make you feel and heal.

His new book, It’s Good to See Me Again: How to Find Your Way When You Feel Lost—a guidebook on the journey to emotional healing—is available on Amazon now.

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How To Stop Chasing Love

December 16, 2020/in Uncategorized /by Treva

Guests:

Dasha Schindler

We’ve all chased love at one time or another, some of us still do. We do it when we’re lonely or insecure, when we seek approval or need connection. We chase love because we don’t trust it will come on its own. And the harder we try to catch it, the further it stays away. 

Not even a pandemic will slow the chase!

On this episode, Dasha Schindler, author of the new book “Don’t Chase Love, Cut To The Chase: Or, How To Google Your Way To A Happy Relationship,” shares her story of childhood trauma, her lifelong pursuit to heal her heart, and her secret to finding love without having to chase it.  

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(Single) Parenting In A Pandemic

October 16, 2020/in Uncategorized /by Treva

Guests:
Kristin MacDermott

Robby and Treva aren’t parents, but they’re giving much respect to the (single) parents out there doing the heavy
lifting. Managing home, work, life, kids AND a love life is never easy, but doing it in a pandemic takes made skills and patience.

This week’s guest, licensed marriage and family therapist Kristin MacDermott, shares her tips, tools, and strategies for successful pandemic parenting.

From knowing your roles, to managing expectations and setting healthy boundaries, to instilling respect, creating structure, and building confidence, we’re helping parents of all kinds get a grip and level-up their skills during the pandemic and beyond.

Kristin MacDermott MFT

Kristin MacDermott is a licensed marriage and family therapist with a decade of research in resilience.
Her resilience-training programs have been validated in four studies with researchers from the
Duke Clinical Research Institute, published in peer-reviewed journals, and proven to improve key mental health and resilience outcomes, including anxiety, depression, distress, self-efficacy, and PTSD. Kristin has designed resilience-training programs for some of the highest-performing people on the planet, including Navy SEALS and the LAPD. Her programs have been used in more than 20 hospitals across the country, including at the Duke Cancer Institute and the National Institutes of Health. She has also designed programs for school, corporations, and non-profits that support at-risk kids.

Kristin is the author of It Takes Two Minutes to Shift Your Mindset and Build Resilience, a book that breaks resilience down into bite-size skills you can apply to your life immediately. She has recently launched two online courses for parents, one called Resilience-Based Parenting and the other called Parenting Through Divorce. She has a private practice in Palm Beach Gardens, Florida where she lives with her husband of 28 years and her three children.

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Love & Politics: The State Of The Union

September 18, 2020/in Uncategorized /by Treva

Guests:

Jeanne Safer & Richard Brookhiser

In an election year that’s more contentious than ever, can you hate someone’s politics but still love them anyway?

According to our guests Jeanne Safer and Richard Brookhiser, it’s possible.

Jeanne is a Liberal, and the author of the book, “I Love You, But I Hate Your Politics.” Richard is a Conservative, and the Sr. Editor of the National Review, the leading conservative journal of opinion. The’ve been happily married for 40 years, despite being on opposite sides of the aisle. 

There’s a secret key to love and politics, but you’ll have to put your political differences aside to find out in this fantastic episode!

Jeanne Safer is a psychoanalyst and author. Her book “I Love You, But I Hate Your Politics” is a compilation of interviews with people who are struggling to work out relationships with political opponents whom they love. Based on her long personal and professional experience, Jeanne helps them figure out what to do and say and–just as important–what NOT to do and say. It’s really about the nature of love, and what really matters in intimacy. It’s what Jeanne calls “showing up,” not how you vote.

Richard Brookhiser is an historian and political journalist. Aside from his Senior Editor duties at the National Review, he’s written 14 books, mostly about the American Founding. His most recent is “Give Me Liberty: A History of America’s Exceptional Idea.” He has also hosted three documentaries, the most recent is John Marshall: The Man Who Made the Supreme Court,” which is available on Amazon.

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Older Women/Younger Men, Why The Hell Not?

September 3, 2020/in Uncategorized /by Treva

Guests:

Vicki Larson

Cougars are having a moment. Midlife women dating and marrying younger men isn’t new, it’s just that midlife isn’t what it used to be. Gone are the rules, parameters, restrictions, and judgement. In other words, it’s not your mother’s generation of Mrs. Robinson.

Today’s post-50 women are free to be who they want, date who they want, and be equal partners with the ones they love.

Older women/younger men, your time has come. 

Joining the discussion is Vicki Larson, award-winning journalist, and co-author of the book “The New I Do: Reshaping Marriage for Skeptics, Realists and Rebels.”

VICKI LARSON

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How To Slay Pandemic Anxiety

August 21, 2020/in Uncategorized /by Treva

Guests:

Lisa Gornall

When you slay anxiety, you slay your need for control. When you slay your need for control, you slay life. Dealing with the unknowns and uncertainties of a pandemic isn’t easy; they require skills and strategies. But on this week’s episode, you’ve got the perfect teacher, Lisa Gornall. 

A spiritual medium, healer, mindset & energy coach, and author, Lisa has tools and tips to help you slay anxiety, find peace, and reclaim your power. Because when it comes to beating back the anxiety monster, you’re stronger than you think. 

 

LISA GORNALL

Lisa was born with abilities to become ONE with your energy. She supports you in breaking through limiting beliefs, patterns, fears and mastering your energy with simple practices. She intuitively empowers successful entrepreneurs and professionals at their breaking point to step out of the hustle and constant, unfulfilling drive for more and back into a life you love. Reclaim your time, relationships, inner-game and energy so that you can get back to the lifestyle you envisioned – a freedom lifestyle. 

 

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ABOUT DONE BEING SINGLE

WITH TREVA AND ROBBY

How did Treva and Robby Scharf know it was time to settle down? Because they were done being single.

Before getting married at 51 and 57, Treva and Robby did it all, dated it all, but neither could close the deal.

For Treva, dating was the thrill of victory and the agony of defeat. At almost 50, she gave up on marriage, and resigned herself to eternal singleness.

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