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Who’s Got The Power?

December 20, 2019/5 Comments/in Uncategorized /by Treva

Guests:

Suzanne Oshima

When it comes to the gatekeepers of sex and relationships, who’s got the power? Men or women? Who’s in control? Is there even such a thing as power dynamics in today’s modern world of love and relationships? Offering expert insights, keen observations, and smart takeaways, is Love & Life Transformational Coach, Suzanne Oshima.

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  1. Tom
    Tom says:
    January 28, 2020 at 2:46 pm

    Robby is a simp in this discussion!
    Treva made him wait 3 months for sex because of all the other guys she had sex with early that dumped her. Exact case of Alpha seeds and beta needs! And he is STILL seeking approval from Treva and all women.
    What a beta chump!
    Nothing wrong if a guy wants to wait a bit to find out if the woman is a batshit crazy feminist or a butt hurt slut.

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    • Treva
      Treva says:
      February 14, 2020 at 7:04 pm

      Thanks for the comment Jimi Fan, sounds like you speak from experience.

      Reply
  2. CAROL WILKEY
    CAROL WILKEY says:
    October 10, 2020 at 2:14 pm

    Love your pod cast . I have a question regards to dating. I have been divorced for 5 years. I’ve gone a few dates nothing happened sexually and we never went on another date. I really wasn’t interested in them they talked about their self all of them. But here’s my question probably 99.9 of my girlfriends that either are divorced or widowed have all gotten into serious relationships right off the bat. Is there something wrong with me that I just can’t find a decent guy? Am I being too picky is there something wrong with me. I don’t know if I’m jealous or I just don’t understand how somebody can get into a relationship so fast.

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    • Treva
      Treva says:
      October 10, 2020 at 6:38 pm

      Hi Carol, thanks for the question. I have two theories. First, maybe your friends are more desperate/in a hurry to meet someone and be in a relationship than you are. If that’s the case, good for you. Not being in a rush, while being content and comfortable with yourself, will spare you from making bad choices and hasty decisions. Second, don’t ask if there’s something wrong with you; ask if there’s something you can do to build on who you are already. Can you improve your health, confidence, and attitude? Are you making good faith effort to get out there with your best self? Meeting someone in a pandemic isn’t easy, but not impossible. There are good men out there. So hang in Carol, it might take some time, but that you’ve reached out tells me you’re already on the right path. If you need more support, contact me at http://www.trevabrandonscharf.com Love, Treva

      Reply

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